“They also learned, and perhaps this was the most important thing, how to look at things through the eyes of the Higher Powers.”
-Fools Crow, LAKOTA
In our journey toward emotional maturity and spiritual awakening, we come to understand that our eyes can only see the limits of our beliefs. Our beliefs shape our assumptions, conclusions, and often cloud our vision. While our five senses provide a narrow perspective, we are invited to engage with the world through a broader lens—the Sixth Sense. This inner radar system guides us, helping us recognize opportunities and avoid pitfalls.
As we strive for emotional maturity, we learn the profound reward of letting go of anger and resentment. In the face of challenges, especially within our Fellowship, we may feel provoked by others. Yet, it is through the practice of restraint and mature reflection that we can transform our reactions. When our inner critic urges us to attack, mock, or retreat, we have the choice to respond from a place of understanding instead, reframing our situation through the eyes of the Higher Powers.
In navigating group dynamics, it becomes essential to recognize when our personal feelings are irrelevant to the greater purpose. We often find ourselves annoyed by the actions of others or frustrated by prolonged discussions. However, as we practice holding our tongues and refraining from eye rolls, we tap into our emotional maturity. “The second I start thinking about how I’m the only adult in the room, I know I’m not coming from a place of emotional maturity.” This reflection guides our interactions, allowing us to embrace a sense of calm over chaos.
The true essence of our journey lies not just in managing our reactions but in striving to see through the infinite perspective that transcends individual experiences. By relinquishing the grip of anger and judgment, we deepen our connection to ourselves and the community. As we cultivate this emotional maturity, our lives become more manageable and peaceful, aligning with the spiritual principles that resonate through both Native teachings and our shared Fellowship values.
Today, I will practice reining in my reactiveness, choosing to view situations through a broader perspective. Emotional maturity is a worthy reward for the effort to see beyond my personal feelings, promoting a harmonious Fellowship grounded in understanding and compassion.