“When you get older and you are ready, your ancestors will show up to guide you.”
-Joe Coyhis, STOCKBRIDGE-MUNSEE
Many of us, when we are young, spend a portion of our lives learning, often the hard way. In our youth, we sometimes think we know everything and may do foolish things. As we mature, we begin to realize we don’t know as much as we thought, and it is then that we become teachable. When the student is ready, the teacher appears, and we open ourselves to guidance and wisdom. Our ancestors are waiting and willing to help; when we are ready, many beautiful teachers enter our lives, aiding our growth and maturity. We become ready for spiritual lessons.
Practicing honesty is another vital spiritual principle. “When we feel trapped or pressured, it takes great spiritual and emotional strength to be honest.”
Honesty is challenging, yet fundamental to recovery and well-being. Many of us have tried to evade difficult situations by being dishonest, only to face greater discomfort later. Twisting our stories often complicates our lives unnecessarily. Honesty, though sometimes uncomfortable, prevents the more severe consequences of deception. It is a cornerstone of our spiritual and emotional growth, helping us live life on its own terms rather than in fantasy.
From the outset of our spiritual journey in the Fellowship, we apply honesty by admitting our powerlessness and unmanageability. Each time we choose honesty over deception, even when awkward, it reinforces our growth. Our voices may shake initially, but speaking the truth soon feels liberating. It’s easier to live in truth than to live a lie.
Just for today, embrace life with all its pressures and demands through honesty. Honesty fosters our well-being and enhances our spiritual awakening. The guidance of our ancestors and the practice of honesty together help us live authentically and cleanly in the Fellowship.